I'm Just A Hole, Sir

Sex is a delicate dance between empathy and selfishness: Too much selfishness and we violate the other. Too much empathy and we lose connection to our own desire. Thus, sex can be a dance between empathy and attunement. This scene explores how objectification can help us let go of guilt, bypass over-empathy and immerse fully in pleasure. By projecting bodies as objects (i.e., just a hole or just a dick), we find relief from emotional burdens. Watch as three men navigate this balance of power, projection and intimacy. Video concept by Finn Deerhart: http://www.finndeerhart.com.